HOBBS, New Mexico — The small community of Hobbs is reeling after the bodies of Dallas residents Megan Bates and her husband, Antwain “Ghotti” Bates, were found in what authorities are calling an apparent murder-suicide on January 9, 2026. The discovery shocked family, friends, and neighbors who knew the couple and were left searching for answers in the wake of a deeply painful tragedy.
Law enforcement officers who responded to a disturbance call at a Hobbs residence discovered Megan’s body at the scene. Antwain was also found and later pronounced dead, with investigators quickly determining there was no ongoing threat to the public. Officials have released limited details as the case remains under investigation, urging the community to respect the grieving families.
Megan and Antwain had deep roots in their communities. Friends remember Megan as a warm, caring presence whose kindness touched many lives. She was devoted to her family and brought a genuine compassion to every relationship she held. Her sudden loss has been described by loved ones as heartbreaking and unimaginable.
Antwain, affectionately known as “Ghotti,” was also held in high regard. Those who knew him speak of his loyalty, strength, and the love he showed to his children and friends. He had graduated from Alvarado High School in Texas and maintained lifelong ties with people who admired his generous spirit.
In the aftermath, tributes have poured in across social media and community networks. A close family friend shared how the couple struggled but sought support, faith, and prayer in difficult times. “Rest peacefully Megan Bates. The softball community has lost two beautiful souls … there are kids left without a father and without a mother,” the friend wrote, capturing the sense of loss felt by many.
Friends have emphasized that the focus should remain on compassion and support for the Bates children and relatives rather than speculation about what led to the violence. Amid the grief, community leaders have called for kindness, outreach, and care for those whose lives were most directly affected.
This tragedy has also reignited conversations about the signs of domestic violence and the need for robust support systems to help families navigate crisis before it escalates. Advocates stress that awareness, early intervention, and access to resources remain essential in preventing similar losses.
As Hobbs and Dallas mourn the loss of Megan and Antwain Bates, friends and family continue to honor their memories with stories of love, laughter, and moments shared. Funeral arrangements are expected to be announced by the family, who have asked for privacy as they navigate profound sorrow and begin the long work of healing.
